Can the relationship between Nikita Mirzani and Lolly improve? Here’s what psychologists say.

Jakarta, VIVA – The intense relationship between Nikita Mirzani and her eldest daughter Loli came into the spotlight again. After filing a complaint against Wadel Badjide to the South Jakarta Metro Police. On the afternoon of Thursday, September 19, 2024, Nikita Mirzani took her daughter home.

As the crowd gathered, more and more people nodded as Lolly screamed hysterically to not get caught. Not only that, after a long time, finally on Thursday afternoon, Nikita Mirzani and Loli met for the first time after a long dispute between the two. Move on.

So, when Nikita and Lolly reunite, can the relationship between the two be repaired? Speaking on this, psychologist Dr. Roza Mini Agoes Salim, M.Psi. said that it is possible to improve the relationship between mother and child.

“If you want to improve the relationship between two people, both have to give something. So it’s not ‘you have to be nice to me, I’ll stay here,’ you can’t have both, you have to sacrifice something.” “Someone has to sacrifice their life to do it,” he said, according to the YouTube stream.

On the other hand, Mother Romi, as she is popularly known, also admires Nikita Mirzani. Nikita said that Romi’s mother should see her son as an asset to his parents.

“Whether you like it or not, he is still your child, so you have to see that this child is your asset as a parent. “If we teach poorly, we will see it at the end of our lives as parents,” she said.

Romi’s mother also said that parents should educate their children well. The main lesson that should be taught to children is morality.

“That is why we have to educate this child well. To teach morality, parents must first have good moral ability. Allah gives all human beings a moral mind, but whether it manifests itself in behavior or not depends on motivation. “If external motivation does not allow morality to distinguish between right and wrong, then it does not exist,” he said.

Furthermore, Romi’s mother also said that morals and ethics should be taught from childhood. Moral education, Romi’s mother claims, should also be correct.

“Teaching morals is not morality, teaching ‘it’s good’, empathy, understanding the feelings of others, I don’t see the good in either of those things,” he explained.